Are You in an Unhealthy Relationship?

  Tell me if this sounds familiar. You met a month ago, (or maybe it’s been 10 years?) and it has been a whirlwind. He’s handsome, smart, funny, and he has a good job. When you go out together, he takes you to nice places, holds the door, holds your...

And the Winner Is…

By: Amy Maricle     Building a Self-Care Community I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for taking this challenge so seriously. Thank you for your comments, your shares and likes, and your posts to the Maricle Counseling Facebook page. Mostly, I...

Self-Care Challenge Day 7: Yoga

By: Amy Maricle   Welcome to the seventh day of the 7-Day Self-Care Challenge! I’m so curious to hear from any and all of you about your experiences. How has your week of self-care treated you? It’s been such a privilege to share this journey with...

Self-Care Challenge Day 6: Painting

Painting is one of my favorite types of self-care. I let go, breathe deeply, and create. I have found that my experience varies depending on the subject matter, type of paint, and my mood. Painting for Self-Care Types of Paint I Use: Acrylic: Water-based, quick...

Self-Care Challenge Day 4: Get Outside

  Whether it’s heading out for a run, playing with the kids, hiking, biking, kayaking, swimming, or camping, I love to be outdoors. I find it rejuvenates me, grounds me, and reminds me of my place in the world. I am so very small compared to a mountain, the...

Self-Care Challenge Day 3: Drawing It Out

  Even if you don’t see yourself as “creative,” “artistic,” you can make circles on a page. Get out some markers, crayons, oil pastels, chalk – whatever you have. Go ahead, draw for just 5 minutes. I promise you can crunch it...

Self-Care Challenge Day 2: Writing It Out

By: Amy Maricle I have found that if I don’t want my feelings to completely run my life, I need some outlets for them. Sometimes five minutes is all I need to purge my worries, whether before bed, first thing in the morning, or in the middle of the day.  Being...

Self-Care Challenge Day 1: Finding Beauty

By: Amy Maricle One of the things that I try to do regularly is to look out for beauty. If I find it right in front of me, that’s wonderful, but if I find it in unexpected places, like in the color combination of the food on my plate, or in the shadow on the...

Join the 7-Day Self-Care Challenge!

This particular challenge is over, so Click here to enter the 5 for 5 Self-Care Challenge  2015! Welcome to The 7-Day Self-Care Challenge! (#selfcarechallenge on social media) I am so excited to share a week of self-care with you. Even more exciting are the...

Why I Am Grateful to You

By: Amy Maricle   Dear You:   There are times that I find myself sliding into complaining, kvetching, and finding faults. It’s an unhappy and unfriendly place, so when I wake up and realize where I am, I don’t feel proud. So I refocus.  I...

Choose the Right Therapist for You

  This week I wanted to talk to you a bit more personally, through video. I am sharing my 3 top tips for finding the right therapist. What do you look for in a  therapist? What are the most important qualities or must haves? Tell me about it in the comments!...

Befriending Anxiety

Facing the Unknown By Amy Maricle Confronting the unknown is unnerving.  Whether you are leaving a job, ending a relationship, having a baby, or starting a business, the unknown has a way of bringing up our deepest fears. What if I’m not good enough? What if...

The One Reason Only You Can Make Yourself Happy

By: Amy Maricle   Tough Lessons When I was almost 20, I dated a jerk. I didn’t realize it at the time, and I don’t think he meant to be, but he was a jerk. He didn’t know how to listen, wouldn’t compromise, and was downright disrespectful to me at times. As my...

4 Reasons Vulnerability Earns Respect

 By: Amy Maricle When things are not right in a relationship, sometimes saying what you feel seems like the worst thing you could do. What if someone uses the information against you? While this is an understandable concern, I suggest that unless you are dealing with...

Four Ways to Turn Resolutions into Realities

By: Amy Maricle Why Do Resolutions So Often Fail? Some people find New Year’s resolutions a helpful way to focus on changes, but for many of us they are an exercise in humility and failure. Forget big, sweeping changes, the January 1st commitment, and resolving to do...